SMILES
Sunday 11 May 2008
You may have
seen me sitting on a chair at the edge of the sidewalk with signs that
say: SMILE IF HAPPY. FROWN IF NOT.
As people approach from my left, or my right, I watch their faces for a reaction to the signs.
Some are in a world of their own and are focused
like tunnel vision looking to the direction they are heading as if I do
not exist, nor the signs exist. And there is no expression on their
faces. Some are young women who it would seem are not prepared to cope
with distractions, and may have been instructed to ignore strangers.
And from time to time I see a real frown manifest on
faces. Obviously their state of mind at that time. Also too there are
hardly any change after seeing the signs, and I sometimes conclude that
is their frown. Such people if I can approach, I can help with my Gifts
of Spirit including prayer. But you know NOT all people want help.
Still others
can be men of middle age or older and
from their dress may have a different ethic origin. And thus can be
from another culture and do not know how to react to such people as
self or such signs. Some such people I am impressed to draw into
conversation, and many appreciate a friendly person and conversation.
However women of another culture tend to shy away.
Some are troubled souls. They are obviously in pain
and do not need any distractions or delays in getting to their
destinations.
On the other hand there are the smilers.
Some are happy
and smiling long before they obviously see the signs. Some smile
as very slight but smiles, and some are huge smiles.
And some break into a smile as soon as they see the
signs. And those I offer a reward for their smile, a FREE HUG COUPON.
Many, men, women, young people, old people... accept
the coupons. And some I tell that on their birthday that card entitles
them to a hug for every year of their life. The result is positive.
And then there
are those that smile, and decline the
FREE HUG COUPONS. Some I suspect that the coupons is a means to some
kind of con game. And maybe at one time a hug went out of control. (I
advise young men that women appreciate a gentleman, and not to force a
hug.) The coupons are freely given, one per person
normally, and I do NOT ask for money.
However I do engage in conversation if the other person is so inclined.
You see there are the extroverts that are naturally
very friendly and will converse when properly approached. I have had
interesting conversations with many as a result.
At times I wear on my shirt a badge that says:
PASTOR WILLIAM. And if a person asks about that, I will answer them and
give them a pamphlet titled: "You Are Not Alone". And tell them it will
pastor-ize them. A bit of humour. The pamphlet has my photo on it and a
message about my Gifts of Spirit. It is free, and I ask that they take
it and read it at home.
And at times a person has need of spiritual healing.
And often right then and there I pray for them and they feel the power
of the prayer.
When couples are present, I might suggest that they
try the FREE HUG COUPON on their boyfriend, or girlfriend. Often they
will correct me and tell me that they are married to the other person.
And they often will share the secrets of their long marriage especially
with the older couples.
At times I will ask the man if he has a sense of
humour? And if he does I will reach out my hand to his lady friend, and
draw her away physically. And I then tell him how easy it is to steal
her away with a smile on my face. First there is shock, and then
laughter. Good fun. I can get away with such things because of my age
of 79 and my grin and hat and humour.
And one of the things that helps the conversation is
the straw hat that I wear with the coloured ostridge feathers attached,
and a few of the Rhea feathers. Every day when walking usually over a
dozen people tell me that they like my hat.
One teenager recently asked if he could take a photo
of my hat and I said yes. He stool at my left while two of his buddies
took a photo. I looked at the photo in the camera and suggested that
they get one of the hat, and not full figure. They did, and it was
great. And from time to time very small children smile and admire the
feathered hat, as do women driving by in their cars, etc. The hat helps
bring out the smiles in people.
The other day
a troubled man I had met previously
approached me and shook my hand and told me of recent positive things
happening in his life. I had prayed for him a number of times with
positive results. I reached into my wallet and gave him a five
dollar bill with the advice not to buy cigarettes, alcohol, nor drugs.
He thanked me and said he would not.
I do not hand
out money to pan handlers as a rule. And agressive pan handlers I do
not like at all. And when a woman is pan handling I surmise that she is
doing so because of a real need. Usually this is true.
But I have been experimenting with leaving pennies
on a ledge in the hallway of an apartment building where I live. Some
times those pennies remain day after day, and then at times every day
their disappear when I replenish them.
Some people will pick up a penny off the sidewalk,
or wherever found thinking of it as a lucky penny. Some will not touch
money left anywhere, and others likely think "Finders keepers, losers
weapers." Whatever.
One day a roll of coins fell to the sidewalk through
a hold in my pocket. I turned around and two young teenage girls had
picked it up and scooted quickly in the opposite direction. Some people are honest, some are not. Have you noticed?
And people are different.
Are you a people watcher too?
Peace, love, light, healing, hugs and prosperity to you and your loved ones.
- Pastor William
P.S.
From time to time I meet a very hostile insulting personality. About
one in one-hundred I would estimate. The most recent such person was a
female age range in mid twenties, and a blonde. This is abnormal. And
it would seem she needs some very serious therapy.